Thursday, January 2, 2014

I Do

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
Marianne Williamson

I stand on the beach at the start of an Ironman and have no idea how I am going to get to the finish line. That is, I know what activities I have to do—first swim, then bike, then run—but I have no inkling of what obstacles will rise up to meet me on any given day. This became painfully manifest to me last summer, when I had to drop out of an Ironman for the very first time ever. Knowing what you want to do, and doing it, are often worlds apart. As Mike Tyson reminded us, everybody has a plan, till you get punched in the mouth.

I stand on the stage behind a curtain that is about to be raised. Through the heavy material I can hear the orchestra playing the overture. In a few moments I will sing to a large audience who have made my show their evening’s entertainment. I know the words and music, I know where to stand and where to move. I know what I want to do. Is it enough to succeed?
Is success the only criterion? Or is it that, to some of us, the doing of a thing is more important than the prospect of failure?

As this year begins, I am standing on a new beach,behind a new curtain. I am waiting to get punched in the mouth.

In the 1970s and 1980s I was a professional opera and concert singer in Canada. An Internet search for my name will yield nothing; I was not brilliant enough to be memorable and I never became famous enough to be Googleable. But I worked most of the time, and I had the excitement and privilege of being involved in many stimulating projects with lots of terrific people (and some downright awful ones).

It’s time I wrote a book.

Just as I turned my star-struck moment as an unpaid teenaged extra on the opera stage into a career as a soloist; just as I transformed myself from a heavy smoker who couldn’t run a step into a multiple Ironman finisher; so I intend to realize my longtime dream of writing about my years as a singer.

It’s a frightening prospect, but if I think about it, no more frightening than the sinking feeling that infuses my body ten seconds before the starting gun goes off; no more daunting than the prospect of filling a huge concert hall with music made simply by passing air over my vocal chords. Anything could happen; or worse, nothing could happen and the audience could be left wondering why they had come at all.

I know that I am a talented, caring wordsmith. I love the process of choosing, assembling, and rearranging words until they say exactly what I want them to. To me, words have always been like a box full of IKEA parts with the instructions missing. You either love figuring out how to put them together on your own or you don’t. Sometimes you end up with the SNARG coffee table and sometimes you get something that looks like a deformed ironing board. But you have to love the process, and you have to love what you create.

I know that I am a talented wordsmith and I wish to be more. A successful work of art is greater than the sum of its notes, or words, or brushstrokes, just as a triathlon demands more than the sum of its three events. The indescribable, untouchable fourth event in my writing is what I will be searching for this year.

Heading in a new direction
Socrates supposedly warned us that the unexamined life was not worth living. This is nonsense; I know people who have never examined anything more challenging than the restaurant bill and they are as happy as clams. But perhaps, to invert the maxim, we can say that the unlived life is not worth examining. I will try to examine my life in the words that I write, and to make those words meaningful enough to be worth the effort.

It’s true that hundreds of thousands of others have the same dream as I have, and likely many of them are telling the same kind of tales as I will. But I can’t think about them for the moment. They are writing their stories, but they are not writing MY story, the one that only I can tell.
Just for now, I can’t worry whether my book will be published, or read, or appreciated; or whether anyone even cares if I write about my life. Just for now my focus is on the process of discovery and communication, and how I can become better at both.

As to the question of who cares whether I do this, author and memoirist Judith Barrington has provided the only answer I need:

 I do.

4 comments:

Cyclophiliac said...

Not sure if this reached your ears, but after I read this post I stood up and cheered. Having the privilege of knowing you in all three of these roles - athlete, opera singer, and writer - I know that you will pour your heart and soul into this work. I cannot wait to read it!

Suza said...

The road less travelled, the road most travelled... doesn't matter. It's your road.

As you know, I adore words and I have often toyed with the same idea. I am so excited for your new venture, Chris. Toi, toi, toi!

Unknown said...

I'm planning the launch party now…can't wait to read your memoirs, Chris! ( well, after I look for my name in the index….)

Unknown said...

Hello Chris, I was catching up on your blog, as I rest my happily weary training bones on the couch, and enjoying your writing as always. Congratulations on "I do!" I am excited for you on this journey, and cheering with you and for you every word of the way. IM-Sam (Thursday's at Beth's)